Rumi’s Life-Changing The 3 Gates of Speech

Before you speak, let your words pass through three gates

At the first gate, ask yourself, “Is it true?”

At the second gate ask, “Is it necessary?”

At the third gate ask, “Is it kind?”

~ Rumi 

The Three Gates of Speech

The great Sufi poet, Rumi, believed that before we speak our words should pass through three gates.

“Is it true?  Is it necessary?  Is it kind?”

How many of the things we say each day could pass this litmus test?  Humans speak on average roughly 16,000 words a day.  After employing Rumi’s test, how many do you think we would speak?  This is an important question that I ponder quite frequently.

We create more karma with our mouth than even our actions.  Our words create a cosmic vibration that can permeate every corner of the world and therefore it is of utmost importance that we are especially mindful of what we say and how we say it.  The words we speak aloud soon become a physical reality in our daily life and will manifest into physical form in the future.

I remember a time when I didn’t know this; in my younger years, I wouldn’t have believed it had anyone mentioned this to me.  Through the years I have come to understand that words have exponential power; intentions have even more power; belief is the most powerful of all.

Words activate our innermost intentions and belief powers those words and intentions to create our very existence (more on this later).  And much to many people’s dismay and chagrin, planetary alignment has an activating power to coordinate our intentions into existence.  What does this mean?  There truly are times when it is more fertile to start new projects or to simply send healing energy to the world to create a more loving and kinder world.

How and where the planets are aligned effect the energy here on Earth.  People will discount this, but the moon affects the tides of the oceans, therefore it is nearly impossible that the moon doesn’t affects the tides within our personal beings.  We are connected to the greater Cosmos and the greater Cosmos are connected to us. The moment we recognize the interconnectivity of all things in the each and every moment, we can take steps to create our greatest lives.  When we recognize the unity in all things, we begin to see that a word or action spoken against someone is a word or action spoken against ourselves.  Grace that is offered to another is grace offered to ourselves.

This leads me back to Rumi and the three gates.

At the first gate, ask yourself, “Is it true?”

At the second gate ask, “Is it necessary?”

At the third gate ask, “Is it kind?”

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If our words pass through these gates, we can be assured that we are aligned with our Highest Self.  If our words pass through this simple test, we will be an inspiration to everyone we encounter.  If our words meet these criteria, we have the ability to forever positively alter every person we encounter.  We need only be the gatekeeper of the words we speak, allowing only the most loving and kindest of our words to be heard throughout the world after passing through these three important gates.

This is how we heal the world.  This is how we become the change we so long to see.  When we elevate those around us with the things we say, we have the capacity, through the power of our words, to change the lives of those we interact with.  Our words have power.  Our belief in those words can activate a change in this world that would make Rumi proud.  I say to myself each day, “Be the gatekeeper of your words.”

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